Brahmavidya and Women
Q. You were talking of strict regimen; men, too, should follow this, is it not?
A. Of course! They, too, are flesh, blood, bone, and marrow; they, too, are afflicted with illness. Each and every person who is afflicted with birth and death and suffering from this cycle is in need of this medicine. And whoever helps himself to this treatment has to follow the regimen, too. Man or woman, whoever neglects the regimen, cannot get rid of the illness. Men cannot afford to say that they are free from it; they have to stick to it closely and observe it strictly. Even if they have had Brahmopadesam (initiation into the spiritual path of Brahma-realization), if they are devoid of virtues like sama and dama [internal restraint & restraint of the senses] they cannot save themselves, whether they are men or women.
Q. But then, Swami, why do many scholars learned in the Shastras declare that women have no right for acquiring Brahmavidya [spiritual knowledge]? What is the reason?
A. There is no reason at all in declaring that women are not entitled to Brahmavidya. Vishnumurthy taught Bhudevi the glory of the Gita; Parameswara taught Parvati the Brahmatatwa through the Guru-Gita. That is what the Guru-Gita means when it says, “Parvati Uvaacha”. What do these words mean? Besides, Easwara initiated Parvati into Yogasastra and Mantrasastra. The Brihadaranyaka Upanishad mentions that Yajnavalkya taught Maitreyi this very same Brahmavidya. This is a well-known fact. Now, you can yourself judge and draw your own conclusion whether women are entitled to Brahmavidya or not.
Q. There are some others, Swami, who declare that women are not entitled to Brahmacharya and Sanyasa. Is it true? Do the Vedas prohibit it?
A. The Vedas have two sections: Karmakanda and Jnanakanda. The Karmakanda is for beginners, for the undeveloped; and the Jnanakanda is for the more advanced, the developed intelligences. There is no reference to men or women in connection with these. The beginners are worldly; how can they understand the immortal message of the Jnanakanda about the atma? In the Brihadaranyaka we have mention of Gargi and Maitreyi who shine in the spiritual splendor of Brahmacharya and Sanyasa. In the Mahabharata also, we have Subha Yogini and other women who are ideal women, full of virtue.
Q. Can women win Brahmajnana even while leading the householder’s life?
A. Why not? Madaalasa and others were able to get Brahmajnana while in the grihastha stage of life, the householder status. You must have heard of these from the Yogavasishta and the Puranas, how they attained the height of auspiciousness, Brahmajnana itself. Then again, do not the Upanishads declare that Kaathyayini, Sarangi, Sulabha, Viswaveda, and others were adepts in Brahmajnana?
Q. Swami, are there any women who have, attained Brahmajnana while in the grihastha stage? And who attained it while in the sanyasa stage? Or any who realized it while in the vaanaprastha stage? Are there women who got it in the Brahmacharya stage of life?
A. Do not think that there are no women who have realized Brahmajnana while in any one of these stages. Choodaala attained it while a grihastha; Sulabhayogini won it while a sanyasini; Maitreyi attained it while in the vaanaprastha stage of life; and Gargi got it in the Brahmacharya stage. There were other great women of Bharat[India] who have achieved this height. Why, there are even today many who are of this great category. I simply mentioned some four names because you came up with that question now; so do not in the least lose enthusiasm. There is no need for loss of heart.
Q. When we have so many examples of women who have attained Brahmajnana, how is it that so many argue against it? Why do they impose limitations on women?
A. It is sheer absurdity to deny women the right to earn Brahmajnana. But in worldly matters, it is necessary that some limitations are respected by them. They are laid down only in the interests of dharma and for loka-kalyana (world welfare). For the sake of the upkeep of morals and for social health in the world, women have to be bound by them. They are too weak to maintain certain standards of life and discipline; they have some natural handicaps; that is the reason for these limitations.
This does not mean any fundamental inferiority. Why, even pundits and men learned in the Shastras acquire their jnana through the reverential homage they pay to the feminine deity Saraswathi. The patron deities of vidya, as well as of wealth and jnana are all three feminine. They are Saraswathi, Lakshmi, and Parvati. Even in customary correspondence, when women are addressed, they are referred to as, “To…who is equal to Lakshmi” etc. You always speak of Mata-Pita (mother-father), Gowri-Shankara, Lakshmi-Narayana, Sita-Rama, Radha-Krishna etc. The feminine name comes first and then the masculine. From this itself you can gather how much reverence is paid to women here.
Q. The distinction between man and woman—do you condemn it as mithya-jnana [false knowledge] or do you value it as atma-jnana [that which reveals the unity in multiplicity]?
A. My dear fellow! The atma has no such distinction; it is eternally conscious, pure, self-effulgent. So it can only be mithya–jnana; it can never be atma–jnana. It is a distinction based on the Upadhi, the mask, the limitation. The atma is neither masculine, feminine, nor neuter; it is the form that limits and deludes and that wears the names.
Source: Prasnottara Vahini